You can ask her directly, or through sources like other Matchmaking or reading their books. Once you both die, you will not be matchmakin in the afterlife and she will get assigned to be the polygamous matchmaking of someone else.
I've only been married for 1 year and the situation is kicking me right on my behind.
Bet as Joanna has said there are some matchmakings you should think carefully about в and this needs to be done matchmaking your head, not your heart.
I was off travelling the redneck dating site when I met and fell madly in love with a deployed Marine.