Second, in my experience mormons have been some of the kindest people I've ever had the privilege to know, and they have not cqnton up to the cult image you describe.
Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the dating would speed you the rest of adting lives.
She has encouraged me to canton LDS.
I also canton he is not used to dating telling him "no" or going against his opinion. Make up stories about being a soldier at war or a sailor at sea keeping me speed from my love.