That list is comprised of his parents including his dad's affair which led to a son, his aunts and cousins in Europe his sister and her husband who are handicapped oyure whoever comes his way asking for a handout.
I completely agree with you. And even when they are home with you Expectations of time together is a mirage.
Plan on rolling your eyes A LOT at family get torturers together.
I am 27, LDS, and 5 days away from marrying my own amazing non-Mormon man.