Honestly, I don't have very good advice, but keep being you and hopefully she won't let her religion blind her like it blinded me. We have molitary married a mere 3. And the longer you see her you won't be getting out of anything soon either.
This makes them overwhelmingly successful wives and mothers. No one understands our lifestyle or how difficult it can be, not even my best friend and or family members no matter how hard they try to.