We might not always like the way some priesthood holders act, but to disparage the priesthood is not being responsible. I have felt alone many a days when raising our 2 children while he was at work or out of town for conferences.
And the longer you see her you won't be getting out of anything soon either. In 5 years, one thing has become certain to me. Yeah, I think we need to have that talk I've been putting off.