You need to disabuse them of this notion.
I have a sitew to be overly sensative emotionally and the trauma of being forced to choose between someone I love and want to spend the rest of my with and Eternal Mormon Celestial Salvation caused me extensive emotional damage that I have struggled with ever since.
Even after that, the Church discourages youth from entering serious relationships before they are considering marriage.
A good man is not defined by his religion and a great marriage is not defined by where it takes place.
Am I ready for this.