Can I add to this extremely old thread.
I l like this pressure of finding a residency has already taken a toll in our relationship and somewhat "controlled" us for so long that I am already so tired of it. We are both extremely busy, and maybe that's why we work, but we try to make the time for our relationship.
She started crying when ,an explained this to her. This woman has already given two full years fully devoted to the institution without question.