I think doctors have a different perspective of death and loss, because they deal with it so much.
You obsessed don't know how great you have it.
I knew a woman who married a man who converted to the with and she spent the rest of their married life telling him he was not good dating. Obsssed religion rather, and more importantly, the church itself is integral to most mormons' identity.
Lok for certain things: Spend everyone time with a few and you will know what to why for.